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Amanda was reading about appointments when she stumbled on this gem! This weeks #MandaMonday post is about the 5 types of people you shouldn't take wedding gown shopping. Brides.com recently posted this article, and she thought it was pretty good so this is basically a re-post with her own editorial comments.
5 People You Shouldn't Bring With You To Your Wedding Gown Appointment

1. Your Future Mother-In-Law
I’ve actually had lots of brides bring their future mother-in-law to their bridal appointments, and if you’re close to her, by all means, invite her along! However, if you’re not very close and the thought of having her at your appointment makes you anxious, it’s okay to skip the invite. If you really want to include her in some way, bring her along to one of your gown fittings so she can have a “sneak peek” of the dress. This way, she still gets to be part of the process, and you don’t have to worry about not selecting her favorite gown. It’s a win/win!

2. The Drama Queen
This is pretty self-explanatory. You know that one friend who is always stealing the spotlight? Don’t bring her. It’s YOUR day, and everybody's focus should be on you!

3. Any Disapproving Relatives
Again, this is pretty self-explanatory. Anybody who is disapproving of your relationship does not need to be at your bridal appointment, period. I would also add that anyone who is likely to make negative body/weight comments is also a good person to skip. I would hate to have to scold them, because this is just not allowed here. This day should be fun, and you should leave feeling excited and beautiful!

4. Jealous Friends
These people can turn an appointment ugly in no time. You want to surround yourself with people who are positive and completely supportive, not those who will drain the joy out of the day. 

5. The know-It-all
Here’s the deal- just because your friend just got married and has planned a total of ONE wedding does not make her an expert. Also, just because your sister watches “Say Yes to the Dress” does not make her a seasoned bridal consultant. Bottom line, it’s your wedding and it’s your dress. Get what you want! Leave the “expert” advice to the actual experts.

Choose carefully when inviting an entourage to your bridal appointment. More opinions usually means more chaos, and if you are easily persuaded keep this in mind. Listen to your own voice, get exactly what you want, and leave the shop happy!

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